YOU ARE JUST FINE!

What is within, within your body, within emotions and your thoughts create your circumstances in your life. What happens to you is not random, you provoke it, you make it happen. You are responsible for your life. Maybe you don't want to see something..Let me tell you one thing  the dark side of yourselves, if not attended, will run your life. 

Thinking you are not perfect right here and right now is an illusion.

You have the perfect body , whether you like it or not, your body is your eternal companion on this Earth so make a friend of your body, take care of your body and love your body.

Your life is really a reflection of your thinking and you shape your reality with every thought you have. Your life is what you make it: hell or paradise. Your lessons in life were not forced on you but you invited them in to become a better person.

Consider that your mistakes are not mistakes at all but they are challenges that help you grow. They are not wrong or something to be ashamed of. It is through the experience that you grow.

Every time you see a pattern emerges in your life you an be sure it is because you have not learned a lesson. Ask yourself what is my lesson? Once the understanding is here you will NOT repeat the same mistakes over and over again.

If you think the grass is greener on the other side, believe you me it is an illusion. Everywhere you go you will be. Your state of thinking will be here too. If you don't change your thinking then your grass will still seem dull. Every time a transformation occurs within your life you will realise that your life is not that bad and actually very good.

Others are your mirrors. If you keep on seeing something you don't like in others, you can be sure that the thing you don't like is in you too. If you see a flaw or a quality in someone you can also be sure you have the same character traits.

Opportunities are coming your way almost everyday. What you do with these opportunities will really make a difference in your life and define more clearly who you are on a soul level.

Don't think your answers to your questions can come from someone else. The answer that is right for you will come directly from you. Others don't know. Listen to your intuition and watch out for signs.

It is never too late and never too early to do anything. Do not compare yourself with someone else  as you have your life to live. Now is the only moment you have. So if you feel like starting the piano when you are 80, don't say I am too old what is the point? rather just say I will do it now and I will enjoy paying the piano, even badly.

EFT can help in clearing some of these negative beliefs away. For instance  if you have the belief that you don't like your body. You can tap, WHAT IF I START TO LOVE MY BODY? WHAT IF I LISTEN TO MY BODY? WHAT IF I GIVE TO MY BODY WHAT MY BODY NEEDS?

LOVU

YOUR BEHAVIOURAL STYLE: WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW TO MAKE THE RIGHT DECISIONS

You can't become a snake if you were born a wolf. Well, that concept applies in every area of your life. Your personal traits are yours for life and you need to be aware of them in order for you to be happy, healthy and wealthy.

In Business, we know that there are 4 types of people. 

One of them is the relater who is open and prefer indirect and slow paced activities. The relater is generally warm and friendly, slow and easy. He or she likes to share her or his feelings, is a good listener  and is generally  cooperative.

Another one is the thinker who is reserved and likes time to think things through. That is the efficient perfectionist, more on the slow and cautious than on the fast and furious. S/he loves to have task oriented activities and love following instructions.S/he is perfectly happy working on her/his own.

The socialiser likes things to be direct and fast. For him or her relationships are important. He or she  knows the value s/he adds to the work place and s/he works fast with enthusiasm. This type is not afraid to take risks and can be very persuasive.

The final type is called the director.  S/he like things to be fast and to take his or her time to reflect. This type loves to take decisions but does not share his or her feelings. S/he has little concerns for relationships. His or her main aim is results. Others find him or her dominating.

Can you spot yourself in one of these portraits? Yes? We all endorse all of these personalities at one point or another but we have our preference and we stick with that because it is more natural for us.

May be you hesitate between two of them and you are not really sure what is your dominant personality. Let me ask you ten questions that will probably give you a clearer picture.

1 What is your appearance like?

A relaxed, casual  
B formal and conservative
C businesslike and functional
D fashionable and stylish

2 What do you fear most


A confrontation 
B embarasement
C loss of control
D loss of prestige

3 What is your main priority?


A keep relationships going  
B what you doing when you are doing it
C the results
D interracting with people

4 What do you seek most?


A to get some kind of attention 
B to be accurate
C to be productive
D to be recognised

5 What do you want most?


A liked
B just right
C in control
D idolised

6 Under tension, what is your usual reaction?


A you submit?  
B you avoid?
C you become more assertive?
D you attack using sarcasm?

7 To convince you of the efficiency of a product  what is needed?


A how it affects you  
B how it works, the logical explanation
C how much it will cost, when , where the facts
D how does it enhance your current status

8 Your home is?


A relaxed, friendly, personal  
B structured and oragnised
C busy, formal
D stimulating and personal , busy but friendly

9 You are irritated by?


A impatience and insenibility 
B surprise and the unplanned
C inefficiency and indecision
D routine and inflexibility

10 What do you care for most?


A your  feelings 
B your thinking 
C your objectives
D your ideas

If most of your answers are in A you are a relater.
If most of your answers are in B you are a thinker.
If most of your answers are in C  you are a director.
If most of your answers are in D you are a socialiser.

Knowing this will help you make money and constitute a team where all the typology can be met. Indeed there is more chance to be a well rounded company, charity , firm, shop... if you are surrounded by people who complement you. Indeed, you need all these hats to be a great success.

LOVU 

EFFORT: PUT THE 80/20 PRINCIPLE INTO ACTION

When you do less you have more. Effort is rewarded when you pay attention to what the rewards of your effort are. And you will notice that 80% of your rewards comes from 20%  of your effort. So attracting money , making money , having a life purpose will come when you apply the 80/20e principle. 

It is so simple. Break down your actions into steps and then next to each one write down what the results you obtain. I suggest you concentrate investing 20% of your times to make 80% of your money. Same for effort. Don't concentrate 80%of your energy on what will bring you only 20% of your results. 

This principle seems like a joke, a lazy way to do things but it is not. Efficiency is key in this world. Spending your time, energy, and even finances on things that won't bring you result is in my mind a stupid thing to do.  

When I was teaching I realised that 80% of the good results I got from my GCSE learners came from going over the Exam methodology on a regular basis, which took only 20% of my time. 

When I do EFT, my clients get more than 80% positive results from working on their negative beliefs, which only take me  20% of their  time to dig  out . 

This Pareto law- the inventor of the 80/20 principle- can be applied in every area of your life. You just need to monitor what is going on for a short while and you will see a pattern emerge.  

My advise to you as far as your money situation is concerned: find out for you, in your own business, what it is the 80/20 problem solutions equation for your customers and then give it to them. They will invest in you because they will see the value in what you have to offer. 

The main thing to remember is  that your customers have to see the benefits in paying you so you can be recommended, become a success and rock and roll. 

LOVU

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TRUST ME!

Trust me, we often hear  this sentence said aloud...But when we do hear it  we think about its  opposite: watch out , careful , beware ...

Hurt and disappointment generally come from broken trust. In that case trust is synonym with  false expectations. How can you learn to trust again and who do trust?

Your divine self , the part of you linked to the divine whole, and God, creator of everything, are the only two who will never disappoint you When you learn to trust the two mentioned above, you will feel happy, healthy and cared for.

Especially in time of trials, trust is important. Faith will automatically bring things back on track. Why? because you are letting go of  control. If I have learned something in my life it is that I can't be in control if God is in control. One has to give. In time of trials it is much easier to give the control back to God to restore things than trying hard yourself and smashing against the brick wall all of the time.

What happened when we don't trust? We worry, we fear, we are sending the wrong vibrations to the Universe who just like an echo answers back what we put out. Generally when we worry and fear we are not open to receive the goodies

It is much easier to be in a open state of receptivity; and you can only be open state of mind when you have ungripped from the tensions, linked to you wanted the outcomes to be a certain way. If you leave it to God you are open to receive whatever comes your way and to accept it as good.

God can take care of any situation and restore your faith in humanity.

However, it is not for the faint-hearted. Your mind, your conscious self, your EGO will fight like a lion to keep control. Why? Because it feels rationally safer to keep control rather to give your power away to God, the DIVINE, something not tangible in our reality- though really present in our reality.

When you turn your problems over to God , you experience a feeling of freedom and generally peace follows. Have you ever noticed than it is when you almost on the verge of letting it all go because everything is getting too much, that things begin to manifest in your life. Let us say You have been trying to date decent women for 3 years and nothing had worked. And that is when you finally decided to stop dating that is  the right one appears.

If you are an emotional wreck , or that your stubborness or  your worry and fears  lead you nowhere, what stops you at that stage  give it a go. Go on I challenge you. Give it to God and see what happens. Miracles happen much faster when you are not in the way, trust me I have been there. 

We all deserve a rest.

Treat yourself to Trust and focus on something else. Focus on the mundane and be happy regardless of the situation. I promise you things will start to patch up and things will actually work much better than what you had first conceived .

What does Trust has to do with EFT? Practising EFT is trusting what you do will be heard and felt by the Universe. I challenge you  a second time here : Go on Give EFT a go and see how miracles happen in your life!

LOVU
Stephane

Tell me what you think!

EXTRACT FROM MY NEXT BOOK: DO YOU WANT MORE C$SH?

ON THE LAW OF ATTRACTION

You tend to think that The Law of Attraction stipulates that whatever you want you will get by visualising it. It is half of the truth. What you vibrate at,you will manifest. You know the Law of Attraction works. But not all the time the way you would like it to work.

How can you make it work in your favour?

You may be doing a good job, saying your mantras and somehow no results happen.

And if you don’t, you may say: “ this stuff does not work. This law of attraction business is a scam designed for morons”.

Maybe you are wrong. Maybe you don’t really know how to make it work for you. Things will start to manifest in your life the moment you start controlling your emotions and your beliefs.

WHY IS THE LAW OF ATTRACTION NOT WORKING FOR ME ?

Perhaps you are not in resonance with what you truly want. Affirming something is not being in alignment with it. It takes more than this. For example: saying : I am in love with X ,1000 times a day ,won’t do the trick , when you know in your heart it is not true.

Thinking, imagining, visualising and meditating are very good practices 

and can lead to some radical transformation in your life but the surest way

 to reach your goal is to use EFT. Unless you become certain you deserve to

 love and to be loved you won’t find the mate of your dreams. You have to 

be emotionally matching your desire. Your subconscious mind and 

conscious mind need to give you the green light for it to manifest in the 

real world. If you have negative unconscious beliefs about relationships that

 will stop your desire from manifesting hence the despair, frustration,

 obsession to make it happen.

The law of attraction is always matching your emotional state and what you resonate with. For example: In my case at the moment I get excited every time I see a white 4x4. I see more and more 4x4, I see adverts about 4x4, I saw a man in the street taking pictures to sell his Landrover 4x4. I don’t drive a white 4x4 yet but I know it will eventually happen.

What you need to feel without doubt is that you deserve what you are asking for. Conversely, if you have doubts, fears and hold contrasting beliefs you won’t manifest what you want.

How do I get rid of my fears, doubts and contrasting beliefs?

Step 1: Become aware that you have fears, doubts and contrasting beliefs.

Of course, it is not always easy to spot your unconscious beliefs. If you need to, go and see a practitioner, he or she will help you. You have to also take into consideration where you come from, and different sources where we chose to pick our beliefs from. Everything you lived was recorded by your subconscious mind that includes your memories. Your reactions to life are generally based on the recording made by your memories and selected beliefs you made along the way.

Consciously you might think that being slim is what you want but subconsciously you believe all slim people are not healthy. So you try dieting but nothing works and you don’t know why. So you start to hate your body and so on. And it seems like the law of attraction does not work.

Step 2: find the source of your fear, doubts and contrasting beliefs. When you have identified the source of this issues then you can let them go.

Step3: reprogramme your mind and choose the new beliefs you want to have instead of the old ones. In our example: it is healthy to be slim.

Step4: let it happen. See how the law of attraction now works for you.

So to sum up, to make the law of attraction work  make sure your emotions are matching your desires. It is not just in the head it is more to do with the emotions you get regarding a subject and these emotions are linked to your beliefs. By changing your beliefs you change your life, simple.

By practising EFT you are practising the Law of attraction.

LOVU

EFT : WHY DO YOU TAP ON EACH POINT

WHY DO YOU TAP ON THESE 8 POINTS?

Here is why.

u1 the eye brow point ; it stimulates the bladder meridian- to get peace and harmony

u2 the side of the eye; it stimulates the gall bladder meridian- to get compassion and understanding

u3 under the eye; it stimulates the stomach meridian- to get tranquility

u4 under the nose ; it stimulates the governing vessel (sexual)- to get self acceptance and compassion

u5 chin; it stimulates the conceptual vessel- to get self confidence and clarity

u6 collarbone; it stimulates the kidney meridian- to get more ease in moving, confidence and clarity

u7 under the arm ; it stimulates the spleen meridian- to get confidence and self esteem

u8 top of your head; it stimulates the all the meridians, it is a meeting point- to get insights and intuition
LOVU

SELF HEALING

HOW DOES EFT WORK?

HOW DOES YOUR BRAIN WORK?

Your brain works in stages.

Stage 1 YOUR THOUGHTS  are verbalised , they are turned into sentences and words.

Stage 2 YOUR WORDS  make you do things.

Stage 3 YOUR ACTIONS become repetitive and a pattern emerges.

Stage 4 YOUR HABITS  make your character.

Final stage: YOUR CHARACTER defines whether you are a success or  a failure.

EFT reprogrammes your mind so you can be a SUCCESSFUL PERSON.

WHAT DOES THE WORD BELIEF STAND FOR IN THE EFT WORLD?

Beliefs are the ideas you have a commitment to, and support.

They are the views and opinions that you have accumulated that represent you.

Your beliefs are positions that you endorse.

Beliefs express your attitude about things, and your way of thinking and looking at things.

Beliefs dictate your approach and outlook on life.

What you believe is what you stand for. It gives you your energy and vibrations.

To summarize, you are the sum of all your beliefs. And if you work on your beliefs you become THE PERSON YOU WANT TO BE.

LOVU

Stephane

AM NOT JUST HERE TO SELL YOU MY BOOKS- AM HERE TO TELL YOU A BOUT EFT

WHAT IS EFT?

EFT or Tapping is also called  "Psychological acupressure", a mixture of Chinese medicine-acupressure – and self-hypnosis
Generally, your emotions, meaning your reactions to an issue, is what creates a problem.
Blockages are released by challenging beliefs or thoughts that are stopping you being at your best while tapping on meridian points.
Tapping on your energy system improves your well-being because psychological disharmony much often than not leads to disharmony in your body. Conversely, tapping on your body heals your mind.
It is a non-invasive  technique because you  tap on yourself; nobody else does the tapping and you work with your negative beliefs, nobody else’s ones.
This method has been invented by Gary Craig in the 70 ies because veterans coming back from Vietnam war could not sleep, had terrible nightmares and could not be functional in their daily activities, they had flashbacks.

WHO and FOR WHOM?

Everyone, even you, can use EFT .
Generally there is a practitioner and a client- meaning you- . You come to fix either a behavioural issue, an affective issue or a spiritual issue.
You are generally referred to an EFT practitioner because everything else failed.

WHY USE EFT?

Your energy is linked to your mind, your emotions and to your body. Therefore it makes sense to use these three things to increase your level of energy.

 AND BECAUSE  IT WORKS.

LOVU

 here a promo: tell me what you think..TA
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uAHuhnt_vLA

Money? Not interested!

Who in the world is not interested to survive?  Money is the heart of Life. You can't do without. People who tell you they are not interested in money it is because they have some or are provided in one way or another.

Money is meant to flow to you. When it does not you are probably stopping the flow coming your way by being obsessed about it. It becomes your number 1 priority, You forget that you want the money for whatever feelings  money will provide you at the end. For example, you want money to go on holiday, the feeling you want to experience maybe peace, being cared of, joy, adventure...

Knowing that your MONEY obsession is based on feelings you want to experience, it makes sense to work on your feelings to manifest money. Indeed if you have programmed your mind to associate the feeling of peace with holiday let us say, then if you feel on a regular basis the feeling of peace, then money will come to you so you can go on holiday. Just like magic.

You are responsible for your life 100%. Forget blaming others, complaining and the feelings of despair. If you want things to change you have to change. If you want more money, do something about it. And it begins with you knowing which feelings you want to experience.



LOVU


NB: I forgot to mention: Do you want more money?, this book  will probably be released next week!

Had a suggestion! What do you think?

My friend Louisa, an angel in this world , suggested I wrote a book about :  how to quite your job so that you can do the things you like thanks to EFT  .

Something like :Quit your job and get the life you deserve thanks to EFT


What do you think please let me know? Do you have a better idea? Do you have a suggestion for a good title?

Want to know 
LOVU

MY AIM IS TO BRING YOU WHAT YOU WISH FOR

EFT can change your life. The only thing is you need to do it. Nothing works by itself. Effort is needed on your part. Mind games is one part of the equation but really effort and mindfulness is needed to radically transform your life.

I am creating books that will be down to earth, telling you what to do in order to get your dreams manifesting. 

Do you need more cash? will be about what to tap, how to tap it and  will be full of scenarios. Results will depend on your consistency.

YES I can slim! will be all about slimming, funny enough, Lol

Are you looking forward to reading these? Let me know!

LOVU

Welcome to my EFT page: this is where I am going to speak about my books

Been working hard on my new book and I am proud to say it will be available to you on 21st.March 2017.TAPPING TO MANIFEST YOUR DREAMS: EFT and the Law of Manifestation combined deals mostly with how EFT can  not only enhance your life but also bring its magic. This book gives you an understanding of how EFT works in your Life.

The book content:

1 Managing and leading the self with EFT: how EFT can support your own self growth

2 Incremental steps in mind body and spirit: pieces of advise on what to be in the flow

3 Stop saying: I want

4 How to feel good about yourself

5 Happiness now: attitude and rule of thumb

6 Hypnosis and EFT: how they are similar and different

7 Negative beliefs and your subconscious mind: how to deal with them

8 Positive psychology and EFT: how these 2 disciplines stem from the same root

9 Voltaire and the Law of Manifestation: doing is key

10 LOVE comes first: self care is love

11 We are all Yin and Yang influenced: what to do to regain your  balance

To buy the book click here; not yet available..sorry

to buy my other book to transform your life click herehttps://www.amazon.co.uk/Weeks-Change-Your-Life-Forever/dp/1515377237